Struggles Became My Strength

By Ralf1031 11/22/18
Struggles Became My Strength, Ralf Friedrichs, ABOC


It is an exceptional time today.

Over 5 years ago I started a show called

“Take Your Life Back Today Show” from our house.

It is thanks to all the special people who joined me along my journey helping me create over 2600 videos and a podcast which aired on iTunes, Google music, Spreaker a d Stitcher

All my videos and my radio episodes, all my appearances on TV shows and all my Addiction/Life coaching are all pro-bono.

Even my promotional material is paid by me.

Why do I do all this?,

simple answer is,

I love to help people, which in turn helps me daily.

Today is about of my journey.

Not looking at tomorrow but celebrating the present so go ahead and ask me questions. Have a inspirational day!

Surround yourselves with the happiness you deserve and thank you for making this possible

-How many of you know anyone with lung cancer, throat cancer or Cirrhosis of the liver?

-How many of you said when you found out they had it that they deserved what they got because they kept smoking, drinking?

-I bet none of you!!!

Please understand this, any Alcohol/Drug issues that involve harm to others, those are for the legal system to sort out.

-So why is it when we find folks addicted to drugs and alcohol we label them?

-We encourage jail time.

-You don't think they also need help, like the diseases mentioned before?

-Does anyone here truly feel jailing someone for drug possession is helping them?

-Does anyone here feel that jailing someone for drinking and driving is helping them?

NO, of course not!

-We don't jail folks for lung, throat cancer, do we?

-We don't jail anyone for Cirrhosis of the liver?

They are diseases, like Alcohol/Drug addiction.

-We, as a society need to rethink how to help those with Alcohol/Drug addictions, not punish them.

-We, as a society need to give them the compassion and the tools to get help.

-We, as a society need to come together and solve the terrible drug epidemic the country is facing.

-I’m pro life, for every life. Not just the baby in the womb for 9 months.

-I’m pro life for the 16 year old curled up on a bench in the county lock up.

-Every life is precious to God

-Every person that has not harmed anyone, but is fighting the fight of their lives with addiction, deserves help, help from all of us

Lets come together, as community and help each other, remember that addiction can happen to anyone of us.

No one is immune from it.

Here is my story----

My life was unmanageable at best: Alcohol took over my life.
Alcohol was my life. I was powerless to change .
Then in 2013 I prayed for God to take my alcoholism away.

He heard my cry over 5 years ago , that cry altered the course of my life and had brought us here together in this moment.

Since then I’ve come to believe that my life is guided by God, and when I chose to let him guide and direct me daily , the best and most advantageous path unfolded before me.
I’ve also learned that there are no coincidences.
Every event we experience and every person we meet has intentionally been put in our path to help raise our level of consciousness.  

When we awaken to this fundamental truth, life becomes a true adventure, a spiritual adventure. The person who smiles at you while you’re walking down the street is no longer a stranger. The phone call from an old friend who crossed your mind the day before is no longer a surprise, the failed relationship that left you broken hearted is no longer a source of bitterness and pain. Instead it’s seen as a blessing in disguise, a gift that makes you stronger, more conscious, and ultimately, more alive.
Over time, as you come to understand these events from my book for what they really are, you will recognize that God has been available to guide and direct your life all along like he has done in my life.


   I call these very powerful books

                 Bottoms Up-
Surrendering to God, not to booze!




Struggles Became My Strength

Enjoy my story,

enjoy my books..

My struggles are real,

as real as yours and through God,

all struggles will work out if you believe that no matter what,

God has your back!

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